Friday, May 31, 2013

Friday Fun: Random Silliness!

At the end of a very stressful week, it sure is nice to look back at all the pictures and at least remember the silly times that made me laugh!

Hello? 

The Cow and the Chicken are Maggie's favorite buddies.  She frequently gives us collections of things to hold, so this is Daddy's animal collection.

Wearing Nanny's glasses


Photography by Carson...at Walmart (Papa Steve, you made the blog!  or at least, part of you did!  lol)

Inspecting a lady bug...and talking to it

Why do boys always have to spit?

Bouncy castle fun at the autism support group picnic

Socks are my least favorite part of laundry

Icing fight with my brother on my birthday

Happy Birthday Mommy!!!

Here, put these on

Another Carson masterpiece.  Apparently, bugs can smile and say "Cheese!", because that's what Carson said when he took this picture.
TGIF!!!  Everyone have a great weekend! 

Friday, May 24, 2013

Friday Fun: Brotherly/Sisterly Love

 
As I was scanning over all the pictures from this past month, I thought about a theme that was relevant for this moment in time.  As Maggie is growing up and Carson is becoming more communicative, I love watching their relationship with each other evolve.  And then it started to remind me of growing up with my little brother.  You can see our picture on top of Nanny's piano on the far right...lol!
This month has been a really fun time for all of us.  Carson and Maggie have had many opportunities to play outside together.  Just look how much fun they have together, and the love and the sibling aggravation!
Sweet brother pushing her in the swing at the park.  Look at the happy face!

Grabbing...affection to him, aggravation to her!


What do you think is going to happen here?  Is Carson trying to run her down with his tricycle?

Taking a break (which lasted about 3 seconds!)

Every practicing gymnast needs a good spotter
Anything you can do, I can do...

My favorite...the love of a sister..."Car-Car!!!"  Wait for me!

I am happy that Carson and Maggie have each other, and I can't wait to see all the memories they will make.  I love having a brother, and I'm so thankful for all the memories we have growing up together.  It's nearer to my heart now because my brother (who is in the military) is home for a visit, and in a few days he will be leaving to go to Japan for a while.  I already miss him, but I am going to miss him so much more knowing he is so far away!  Thank God for all the great technology we have now to keep in touch!  Just having him here makes me think of all the (fun) times we have had, and making new memories with his niece and nephew.  Even making new memories for me and him.  I certainly will never forget this hand sanitizer he sprayed all over me and my desk and everything at work when he came to see me the other day!  Thanks for that!  Love you!

Ahh...the love between a brother and sister...never ends...:)  

Yes, I know, Eric, this is a terrible picture, but it is a smiley one!
(Going away party, Feb. 2010)

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

The Cost of PKU

I would like to share a little more information in honor of PKU Awareness Month.  I sometimes discuss other costs of PKU, but just realized I have not really explained the financial cost in detail.  I got my inspiration from recent posts by Kelly over at Littlest Sweet Pea .

If I had to insert a disclaimer here, it would be that all PKU families are not created equal.  Everyone has different needs, different insurances, and lives in different states where coverage and programs are not all the same.  And although most children Carson's age are picky eaters, not all of them are, and not all are as picky as Carson!  Also, there are thankfully several options available for formula and low protein foods.

Currently, Carson is covered under my insurance plan at work, which is pretty fabulous.  However, it is far from perfect for the coverage he needs. It does not cover his nutritionist visits (and they are the most important people in our lives!), which so far have been $46 per visit (we go twice a year).  And because Alabama does not have a policy to provide medical foods, unless you qualify for Medicaid or WIC (which we don't right now), we have to pay for Carson's formula.  The most important part of Carson's diet is his formula.  The formula gives him all the protein he needs minus the part his body can't process, therefore it is specially made.  He drinks the brand Phenex-2.  Presently we get one case a month of 6- 400g cans, which is about the size of a small can of powdered baby formula, in comparison.  My insurance pays 70% after a $50 deductible, leaving 30% for us to pay, which amounts to just over $130 per month!  This is our biggest expense.
   

I make him a loaf of bread about every 2 weeks, and it has several ingredients:

1 cup Wel-plan Baking Mix (made of cornstarch and wheat starch):  400g box for $9

1 3/4 cup wheat starch: CamBrooke Foods Wheat Starch is a 6lb box for $17.99 (I think one of these lasts me about 3 months)

3 tbsp Metamucil (I buy the largest container I can find, Original flavor and always brand name): 29oz container at CVS (which is where I had to buy it last) was $16.29

2 tbsp Coffeemate powder:  22oz for $4 at Walmart

2 tbsp sugar

1 1/2 tsp yeast:  Fleischmann's Active Dry Yeast 4oz jar for about $4.50

3/4 tsp salt

1/2 tsp molasses

Most of these ingredients last 3 months, 6 months, some maybe a little longer, so it's hard to calculate a total cost.  That comes to about $50 for everything, so if I bought everything 4 times a year, that's $200 (but it's likely closer to $100).  That's probably only a little more than most people who buy a loaf of bread at the store every week.  If I wanted to buy a low protein loaf already made it would cost $11.99 for ONE loaf from CamBrooke, plus since it is a cold ship item you are required to spend at least $50 minimum, then pay over $20 shipping on top of that.  See why I make the bread myself?  Plus it tastes a whole lot better!

The most used items in my house are CamBrooke's MixQuick, which I use to make Carson's chocolate chip cookies each week, and sometimes for pancakes.  A 6lb box is $34.49!  That is by far the most expensive food item I buy.  I use Chocolate Dream Dairy-Free Chocolate Chips, which I buy at Whole Foods in Birmingham, and they are about $5 for a 12oz bag (maybe twice as much as regular Nestle chips).  The other big food item I buy is low protein pasta.  He eats it almost every day.  I buy the Loprofin Fusilli from Nutricia North America, which is $11 for a 500g box.  A box of Great Value at Walmart, about the same size, might be less than $2, I don't remember exactly.  Carson eats a whole cup of pasta each time now, so one box does not last very long anymore.  These are his main staples.


Another comparison item, one I can buy at Walmart, is Biscoff spread.  This is his peanut butter alternative (which is much tastier than peanut butter!) and he uses it most days on bread to make a sandwich.  A 14oz jar is almost $4; in comparison, a bigger 18oz jar of Jif is less than $3.

Carson's only other sandwich of choice is a grilled cheese.  CamBrooke's American Cheese Slices are about $11.99 for a bag of 32 slices, versus the brand I buy for the rest of us, Velveeta, which would cost maybe $6 for the same number of slices.

The only precooked food I buy Carson is CamBrooke's Mini Pizza Pockets.  That should have been listed under his main staples as well!  The best comparison I could find is Totino's Pizza Rolls.  A bag of them, twice the size of one box of Carson's pizza pockets, was $3.29 at Target.  That contains 40 rolls.  A box from CamBrooke contains only 6 (obviously larger) rolls, for $9.99 per box.  One box lasts Carson 3 days (meals).  He eats them twice a week, so that amounts to $29.97 a month (3 boxes).

Most everything else he eats is typical stuff like we eat that we can buy anywhere, like cereal and fruit and vegetables.  But make no mistake...this is an expensive diet!

As I mentioned before, there is no assistance from the Alabama government on medical foods (which are provided to everyone, regardless of income, in many other states), nor is there any help for the special low protein foods he has to eat to fill his tummy without getting too much protein.  Insurance does not pay for those, much like a diabetic having to buy special foods (except much more expensive and much more volume!).

There is a bill that has been through Congress a few times but has yet to be passed or approved.  Every year since its inception the bill has been lobbied by various organizations supporting PKU and other inborn errors of metabolism who require such diets.  I believe the opportunity for the current session has already ended, but please click here to learn about the Medical Foods Equity Act .  Contact your local members of Congress and help support this cause in the future!



Friday, May 17, 2013

Friday Fun: Oh, BOY! What will he get into next?

Today I am starting a posting series I will call "Friday Fun".  Every Friday I will try to post some recent pictures/stories of something light and entertaining, just for fun.  Welcome to my first episode!

I have been saving up these pictures for a while just for the purpose of making this post.  I couldn't help but share all the wild and funny places we have found Carson lately! 

First of all, we are witnessing the classic older sibling regression:

Baby Walker
Baby Stroller
Baby Swing
Baby Riding Toy (bonus: teddy bear with pink tutu! lol)
Then we have the "typical" little boy stuff:
 
Not as typical as it appears:  He is not "hiding" in the hamper.  He was actually going in his room to turn on the lamp, which is beside the hamper.  How he ended up in the hamper I don't know! lol
Climbing one of the dead trees left by the tornado, at Nanny's house


Climbing onto the gooseneck trailer and then onto the pile of wood for the shed, all by himself

More climbing...up and down ladders by himself!

Pushing Grandmother's walker around...and around...and around...
 And last, this one is just for me:
I used to play this game with my cat.

 Happy Friday!  :)

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

PKU Awareness Month


Educate.  Advocate.  Inspire.

May is PKU Awareness Month!  I want to take a few minutes to shine some light on this subject that
most people know nothing about.  I have found some great bloggers recently who have really given me some great inspiration, about both PKU and life in general.  Check out my Favorite Blogs list and pay some of these folks a visit!

Feel free to check out my PKU tab at the top of the page to read some detailed info about PKU and our personal experience with it (I have updated it just a bit today).  We have such a whirlwind of things going on in our life right now, just finishing up our first Autism Awareness Month, and then running right into the same for PKU!  I hope everyone will take a little time to read about this rare disorder and tell other people about it.  Education is the first step!

I hope to devote more time to working on this blog in the near future, to make it more helpful, supportive, and useful.  I plan to add more info about traveling with PKU, which seems to be a highly searched topic, as well as eating out.  I don't have much of a need for recipes right now, so I probably won't be very helpful on that subject, though I love to read them anyway!  I also have a dream to start some kind of local PKU group.  Alabama has only a small number of people who have PKU, so I know it has not been easily done.  I mainly just want to create a place where everyone in Alabama can go to find resources, information, and support.  Any advice or wisdom would be appreciated, if you would like to chime in.

Carson and his PKU Diet


I like to give an update from time to time about Carson and his diet.  (note:  Some of this info is also included on the PKU tabbed page, in case you don't want to read double!)  Lately there hasn't been much to update.  He is still picky as ever and not much has changed about his diet.  He has finally had a little growth spurt, after remaining the same size for about a year, so I think his diet needs might change a bit soon.  He transitioned well from his PKU formula for infants and toddlers, Phenex-1, to the adult formula, Phenex-2.  He did not give me any problem about drinking it, and right now he still wants it and asks for it all the time.    I also know that if his taste for it ever changes, there are so many options out there now for him to choose.

He still only eats bananas and applesauce for fruits, and broccoli and cauliflower are his only veggies.  He likes tomato sauce, so he eats lots of pasta with sauce and I even made alphabet soup.  Pasta serves as a great facilitator for new food tries (as does lopro rice).  I made pesto sauce and he loved that; I also make stroganoff from time to time, mushroom soup by itself on the pasta or rice, lopro mac and cheese, or veggie broth (I don't think he was crazy about that last time).  He loves his bread now, thank goodness, and will eat a sandwich any time (lopro grilled cheese or Biscoff spread), plus I make rolls and breadsticks out of it for him to have with meals, especially when we eat rolls too.  He eats homemade lopro chocolate chip cookies every day.  It's a struggle to keep those baked!  That's his favorite!  And for breakfast, his no-fail Chocolate Cheerios!  Or sometimes lopro pancakes...

For a while he would eat blueberry muffins, but this last batch has been allowed to ferment.  He refused to eat them after just one bite.  And so we continue with the normal frustrations of a young child and his picky eating habits...just with a special diet.

His current weaknesses, or higher phe foods that could cause him trouble in the future, are Mexican food and potato chips.  We have a fave Mexican restaurant in our town, Buena Vista (shout out!), where he loves to eat tortilla chips with salsa, and a side of Mexican rice.  He also loves potato chips, and occasionally is allowed to eat tater tots or hash browns.  These are the only forms of potato he likes!  I guess we should be thankful!  On those days, we just have to figure something low in phe he can eat to make sure he doesn't get too much.

We are very blessed, though, that he does not seem to mind right now if we are eating something different from him.  I try to downplay the fact that Maggie eats the same things we do by being very discrete.  I have noticed that Carson watches on occasion, but he has yet to react or say anything about it.  We have tried to never make a big deal out of it, and our rule has always been "no eating off each others' plates".  If I have something Carson can eat, I put it on his plate myself, I do not let him reach onto my plate, so I do the same thing with Maggie.  It still works...so far.  Maggie has come along to shake things up now! 

To see what products we currently like to use, as well as an embedded link to find low protein foods, click on my PKU tab above. 

Happy PKU Awareness Month!  Don't forget to Share the Love!

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Music to My Ears

Whenever any parent expresses eagerness for a child to reach a milestone, it is usually met by many a veteran parent with a word of reassurance or encouragement, and an anecdote about their own
Even talking with his mouth full!
 Happy Cinco de Mayo!
experiences.  I have been told several times over the last few years that I just think I wish Carson would hurry up and talk; be careful what I wish for, because once he starts talking he won't stop and I'll be wishing he would just be quiet.  I have always said no I won't, because I would be thrilled for him to be able to talk and communicate with us instead of this struggle, wondering what he is trying to tell us and not knowing what he is thinking about anything, and I still feel that way.

Carson has been in speech therapy for about a year and a half now.  What I have learned from the therapists, including all the ones who have evaluated him, and the handouts they have given me, has helped more than anything they have done with him personally.  But I don't think any of that effort is what has helped his language to flourish recently.  I think it has just taken time, growth, desire on his part, and a lot of answered prayers.

About 2 weeks ago, I asked Carson if he wanted something, or wanted to do something, I don't remember the specific question.  For years I have always talked with him as if he would answer me, even though he never has answered a yes/no question (verbally).  I usually follow up by giving him a choice or trying to show him what I am talking about.  This time, to my disbelief, he actually said "No thank you!"!!!  Just like he had been saying it all along, even though he never had!  I almost passed out!  We still haven't heard him say yes, but just being able to tell us no for the first time in his life, instead of screaming, is such a HUGE step, relief, and major breakthrough.  It sure does prevent a lot of meltdowns.  Hallelujah!  God is good!

Another breakthrough he has had, at the same time, is that he can finally tell us what he has done during the day, when we ask him, and even when not asked.  He sometimes just walks up to me when I pick him up in the evenings and tells me random words and phrases that have to do with what he did that day.  He says things like, "ride tractor Paw-Paw" or "Granny Walmart".  He talked for at least two days about how we went to the doctor to get medicine, "went to doctor get medicine".  I am amazed!

I know he will continue to grow and develop language, but it amazes me what a chatterbox he is now!  He seriously talks all the time, it's just been a matter of what he talks about, answering questions, and how he communicates what he is thinking, feeling, or remembering.  To see this new start has been a step in a very hopeful direction!

My first sucker!
(one word we have not yet mastered)
Carson is not the only chatterbox in the house, though.  Maggie has been tuning up her pipes now and her language is blossoming too!  She is trying to learn new words constantly, and she jabbers all the
time.  She's going to be like her daddy!  LOL (wink, wink!)  It is awesome for me to see how Maggie's language grows so quickly at this age, in contrast to the way Carson's didn't.  This is a new experience for me.  Knowing that Maggie is seemingly on track with her language gives me such relief and hope that maybe she won't have those delays.

I know most people wish their kids would just be quiet, but for me, the sound of my babies chatting up a storm (instead of just screaming all the time) is long-awaited music to my ears!

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Happy Feet!

Yes, our littlest angel is finally on her feet!  She walked on her knees for a long time, which I thought was strange, but her physical therapist said was perfectly normal.  Walking is a very exciting milestone for any child, but I don't think I have ever felt such relief as when Maggie took her first steps alone.  I worry from time to time about her clubfoot, how it healed, how it will grow, how it will change, and how it will affect her in the future.  I even think sometimes about how it will look and if she will be self-conscious about it if it looks different (insert:  I need to write a good post about being "different".  Look for that in the future).  A mother can't help but worry, you know.

But this little headstrong girl of ours has shown us already that she doesn't back down.  And she is having a great time doing it!


However, no one in the world is more excited about it than her very proud big brother, Carson.  :)


Carson kept jumping off the tractor just to run over and give her a kiss, shouting, "Baggie WALKIN!" the whole time.